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MY psychology of Tilting

MY psychology of Tilting - Sat May 25, 2013, 11:22 AM
DrEllenCait's Avatar
Since: Jan 2013
Posts: 125
Two hours into the satellite Scoop, for which I am very grateful to PSO for providing tickets, I was ahead at my table with 20,000 chips. Within 15 minutes, I was gone, no chips. The key here is to learn from what happened.

I debated prior to the tournament as to whether I would even play. I was struggling with 'mother guiilt'. Both my kids woke up feeling awful. I am at the end of a miserable flu and they are at the start of it with muscle aches, low grade fevers, sore throats--you know that misery. Now if I played the tournament, who would make them tea, hug them? .My partner, encouraging me to play the tournament, made the tea, he went to the grocery store to get the list the kids made. Ok,why all this info? One's mental state prior--and of course during--to any competitive endeavour is crucial. I see it with any potentially stressful situation. A doctor comes in for his shift in emergency. Having been out late with the guys, maybe having one too many, he would rather be in bed than seeing patients. His focus is compromised. He calls me, a psychiatrist, to see a teenager who has had headaches for the last week. It must be stress this doctor assumes, but I find out no scan has been taken and sure enough he has an aneurysm at the base of the brain and needs surgery now.

My mental state seems to even off as I make my first bet which garners me $1900, ,putting me in the lead early on. Note my obsession about being in the lead at my table. We all add-on and the table evolves as different players sit, now almost all with 8000+ . No problem I have 11,000 chips. But the game is radically different with opening bets made with 87s, opening bets of 3000, shoving abounding. Initially I keep my pace, passing often, no A6o bets. I watch the stacks with two opponents close to 25,000. I semi-bluff 2-3 times and each works as no-one expects that female who has been passing often to not have her bets. From there I think I have them and twice I call a substantial 'all-in'. It works the first time as I pull a straight against AA. It was a totally undisciplined call but a lucky one. From there I really begin to tilt.

My fantasy is at hand. I will surprise all of PSO, me, a beginner, will make it to the final table where I may even win. I lose sight of each hand I pick up. Fantasy is far more exciting than discipline .Eventually I go all-in and I go out.

For me, poker is as much about competency as it is about psychology. And in analyzing what went wrong, I am very grateful to our wonderful PSO as that $27 ticket taught me every penny's worth.

P.S. Good news is next day I started with a $7 buy-in,9 person SitN'Go. I meditated prior to game, stay focussed and disciplined throughout and came in first place for a $28 (or so) win. Yes it was a much smaller game but regardless of type of game, size, prizes, etc., each hand deserves same treatment!
Sat May 25, 2013, 11:42 AM
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Since: Jun 2010
Posts: 4,557
Excellent post Doc.

Poker is about making good decisions and one's mental state dramatically affects decision making effectiveness.

One form of tilt, what I call "Iron Man Syndrome" -- when you feel invulnerable, is one of my biggest challenges. I few well played hands with dead on reads and away I go only to crash and burn most of the time.

Good decisions, and whether to sit at the table or not is one of hardest decisions you can make at times.
Sat May 25, 2013, 12:04 PM
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Since: Jul 2011
Posts: 639
Nice post Doc, I agree that your mental state effects how you play more than people realise. Going into a game with the correct mental state and attitude is so important. As Joe says, sometimes choosing not to play, even though hard to do, can be a great decision.

Originally Posted by TrumpinJoe View Post
One form of tilt, what I call "Iron Man Syndrome" -- when you feel invulnerable, is one of my biggest challenges. I few well played hands with dead on reads and away I go only to crash and burn most of the time.
"Iron Man Syndrome" - Genuis name.

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